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It might be normal but it's not right. Somewhere in your head you've crossed a line that your conscience did not want to cross. Ask yourself what triggered it. Is it an outside force (religion, parents, upbringing, societal norms) that's causing it or does it really bother you the way your partner treated you during sex? Health BDSM relationships are about being open and honest. No. It is not. If you feel uncomfortable in anyway, you should always call it out to your partner. Say your safe word. This isn't 50 Shades of Grey. You need to address these feelings, understand what you are finding uncomfortable, address what is making you feel guilty. Hopefully your partner will be understanding, address areas of change. Leading to better sexy time in the long run. What specifically do you feel guilty about? Is it normal to feel guilty after being submissive in bed?