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There is this young girl (19). I (26) am attracted to her physically but not emotionally. I lust for her body but I don't want a relationship. I'm not sure she wants the same.
Well, one way to indirectly find out what she thinks about the topic is to ask her what she thinks about 'friends with benefits'. Don't mention yourself, maybe mention some TV situation comedy where it happens.
If she tells you she believes a friends can have benefits and still be friends, go for it! That is going to be tough. I am not afraid of to ask her, I just want to avoid the awkwardness. I still want to at least keep the friendship if it doesn't work out as plan.... CRAP! Just even more questions I have to ask!
There's no way you can know for sure what she really wants because she:
a) may not know what she wants
b) may not tell you what she wants
c) may want one thing before hooking up but another after getting to know you better.
She may want sex only now, but relationship later, or the relationship now, but sex only later.
The only way to know it is to try it and see it.
The real question is - should you be straightforward and honest about your intentions? There is this young girl (19). I (26) am attracted to her physically but not emotionally. I lust for her body but I don't want a relationship. I'm not sure she wants the same.
